something I realized:
I am a meddler.
I meddle.

A.D.D. MOMENT - I ordered this ring, it looks a little different in person, the froggy isnt as 'smooth'  -  but if you are looking for something mildly ostentatious for your next cocktail party, then this ring is just the thing !!
http://www.lucidnewyork.com/  the ring is available in size 5,6, 7, & 8
I ordered it, and though they say 7-10 days, I recieved mine within 4 days :)
Two Thumbs Up.

Ok, back to the meddling, as stated previously, I am aware of my meddling tendancies.
Sometimes it is good meddling, sometimes it is bad meddling.
If I was a short, elderly, Jewish lady, it would be endearing, unfortunatly, I'm a single woman in my late 20's who pays more than moderate attention to what goes on around her and asks pesty questions!
I have a compulsion to make people happy, and it delights me. I pursue it with a tenacity and determintion, bordering on obsession.